Foreign Lands, New Places, New Faces

I know I haven't wrote for a bit after my last blog. Still a lot going on. Once you think you have most of your "to-do" list done, you're not.

Whats up with my title of this blog?
 My husband has a new duty station, but due to some OPSEC rules I wont name it for now, especially since I'm not sure if I'm staying or going.
I've been torturing myself over and over with what decision to make. Should I go with him? Should I stay in Augusta (Which is where I've grown up), near my dad and brother, or should I move to ATL with my  best friend and her better half?

If I don't go he will only be gone for a year. If I do then its a chance that my daughter and I and him will be there for 2-3 years. I don't want to miss such a great opportunity but there are other little snags that may stop my daughter and I from going. (Baby Daddy stuff, if you've got one, or Hey even a baby momma, I am sure you can sympathize with me)

If I stay here, I will work my butt of to get a job outside the home to keep myself busy and get my daughter in daycare for her socializing self, and get a easy step in to get on the Pre-K list. (Which here in GA is lottery funded and only a set amount of spots are open in each place offering Pre-K).
However, even though my brother and dad are here, I and mainly my husband feel that I will not be getting the support the I need while hes gone (Emotionally, financial support is not an issue).

If I go to ATL, then I have my bestie who is the best support ever, but I dont know Atlanta very well at all, and I'd have to pack up everything and move up there and find a place a job etc..

Did I mention that we have until January to do this? Not even ALL of January because projected leave date for him is the 10th. So, packing while trying to do the holidays too is not the best idea.

I am sure you see my dilemma now, keep in mind I spared everyone with the nitty gritty details. ~Sigh~...Life, what a wonderful, crazy, roller coaster ride of unpredictability.